Death Lies & Alibis

Debunking Myths: The Hidden Realities of Domestic Violence

Welcome to Day 3 of our 26-Day Domestic Violence Awareness mini-episode series. In this episode, Christy dives deep into the critical task of debunking pervasive myths surrounding domestic violence. Despite the wealth of information available today, harmful misconceptions persist, leaving victims feeling trapped and misunderstood.

Christy addresses the dangerous myth that domestic violence only affects certain demographics, emphasizing that abuse knows no boundaries of income, race, or education. She shares a personal story that highlights how domestic violence can hide behind closed doors, affecting even those who appear to have it all together.

The episode also tackles the misconception that victims can easily leave abusive relationships. Christy sheds light on the terrifying reality that leaving is often the most dangerous time for victims, underscoring the importance of safety planning and professional support.

In addition, Christy discusses the various forms of abuse beyond physical violence, including emotional, financial, and psychological abuse, which can leave lasting scars. She challenges the stereotype that men cannot be victims, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and supporting male survivors.

Christy dispels the notion that victims provoke abuse, affirming that abuse is a choice made by the abuser, not the victim's fault. She warns against the dangers of couples counseling in abusive situations, as it can give abusers more control.

Finally, the episode debunks the myth that substances like alcohol and drugs cause domestic violence, clarifying that the root issue is the abuser's need for control. Christy emphasizes that even a single act of abuse is serious and can have lifelong impacts.

Join us as we continue to break down barriers and spread awareness. Tomorrow's episode will focus on recognizing the warning signs of domestic violence. Don't miss it!

The Hidden Crisis: Unveiling the Realities of Domestic Violence

Hi folks, Christy here. Today, we're shedding light on the troubling realities of domestic violence both nationally and here locally in Ohio. National statistics reveal that one in four women and one in nine men will experience severe intimate partner physical violence. Domestic violence extends beyond physical abuse, encompassing emotional, psychological, financial, and digital abuse, all aimed at controlling another person in a relationship.The impact of domestic violence goes far beyond the individuals directly involved, affecting families, communities, and generations to come. On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States, totaling over 10 million men and women annually. Additionally, one in three women and one in four men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner.In Ohio, 38% of women and 33% of men report experiencing physical violence, stalking, or sexual violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime. Over 81 domestic violence fatalities were reported in Ohio last year, highlighting the life-and-death nature of these situations. Ohio ranks in the top 10 states with the highest rates of domestic violence homicide, emphasizing the need for greater awareness, resources, and legal protections.Raising awareness and breaking the silence around domestic violence is critical in tackling this epidemic. If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to local or national resources for support. Domestic violence thrives in silence, but together we can break the cycle and bring about lasting change.Join us in our Facebook group for further discussion and resources. Remember, silence is violence. Let's work together to end domestic violence.

Honoring Strong Women & Men: A Year-Long Domestic Violence Advocacy Initiative

Hi folks, Christy here. I'm incredibly excited to share a new initiative that we're launching in honor of some of the strongest women we've ever known: Ashley Johnson, Amy Jo Nelsen, Kylie Lindell, and Barb Frame. These amazing women, who didn't survive domestic violence, have left a lasting impact on all of us. In their honor, we're rolling out a year-long domestic violence advocacy project aimed at prevention and support.Each week, we'll focus on a different theme related to domestic violence awareness, prevention, and survivor support. Our goal is to create a community that is educated, aware, and ready to take action. This project is dedicated to Amy Jo, Ashley Johnson, Kylie Lindell, Barb Frame, and others who have tragically lost their lives to domestic violence. We are committed to ensuring that no one else becomes another victim.In week one, we focus on understanding domestic violence, emphasizing education and awareness. Domestic violence isn't just physical harm; it includes emotional, financial, sexual, verbal, digital abuse, and social isolation. Recognizing these various forms is key to helping victims find the support and resources they need.Join us as we honor these women by taking action to help others survive and thrive. Share your thoughts, stories, and ideas, and let's work together to make a difference. Together, we can ensure their stories aren't forgotten and their legacies live on by preventing future tragedies.Thank you for being part of this journey. Let's get started with much love.For more discussions, join our Facebook group.

Murder In Mt Calvary Cemetery: The Bob Buehler Case

Welcome to Death, Lies, and Alibis. I'm your host, Christy, and in this episode, we delve into a chilling cold case that has haunted the small town of Newark, Ohio for over three decades. Join us as we explore the life and tragic death of Robert "Bob" Buehler, a beloved local figure whose life was brutally cut short on May 8, 1991.
Bob was known for his gentle soul, his passion for photography, and his love for capturing the essence of Newark through his lens. However, his serene life took a dark turn when he was found murdered in Mount Calvary Cemetery, a place known for its quiet beauty. The brutality of the crime, with Bob suffering 23 stab wounds, has left the community in shock and searching for answers.
In this episode, we hear from Bob's friends and family, who share their fond memories and the impact of his untimely death. We also explore various theories and rumors that have persisted over the years, including a mysterious man seen with Bob on the day of his murder and possible connections to local figures. The investigation's twists and turns, including an autopsy revealing the extent of the violence inflicted upon Bob, paint a grim picture of this unsolved case.
We invite you to join us as we piece together the events leading up to that fateful night and explore the lingering questions that remain. Could advancements in forensic technology today bring new light to this cold case? What role did small-town gossip play in shaping the investigation? And most importantly, who was responsible for taking Bob's life?
Listen in as we uncover the hidden darkness beneath Newark's lovely surface and urge the community to come forward with any information that could finally bring justice for Bob Buehler. Together, we can ensure that his story is not forgotten.
Stay tuned and be prepared to enter a world where the truth has evaded justice for far too long.
Sources:
Newark Advocate 
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Unseen Terror:The Circleville Letters Case

Welcome to "Death, Lies, and Alibis," where your host Christy delves deep into the murky waters of local cold cases. In this episode, we revisit Circleville, Ohio, a seemingly idyllic town that was shaken by a series of anonymous letters beginning in 1976. These letters, targeting local school bus driver Mary Gillespie, accused her of having an affair and turned the community against itself.
As we explore the chilling events that unfolded, including a booby-trapped sign meant to harm Mary, we uncover the investigation that led to the arrest and trial of her brother-in-law, Paul Freshour. Despite Freshour’s conviction, the letters continued, suggesting a deeper, more complex mystery. We scrutinize theories, suspects, and new insights, leaving you to ponder if true justice was ever served.
Join us as we sift through evidence, testimonies, and the unsettling continuation of the Circleville letters, aiming to shed light on one of Ohio's most haunting unsolved mysteries.

Unseen Terror:The Circleville Letters Case

Welcome to Death, Lies, and Alibis, the podcast that delves into the eerie world of local cold cases. In this episode, your host Christy takes you to the small town of Circleville, Ohio, where a series of anonymous letters shattered the peace and ignited a wave of fear and suspicion.
The saga of the Circleville Letters began in 1977 when Mary Gillespie received the first unsettling message. This episode explores the dark journey that followed, involving threats, a tragic death, and a community gripped by paranoia. As the letters continued to arrive, the town's tight-knit fabric began to unravel, and everyone became a suspect.
Join us as we uncover the details of this chilling mystery, the investigation that followed, and the lasting impact on Circleville. Stay tuned for the next episode where we delve into the dramatic arrest, trial, and the lingering question: was the right person caught?
Don't miss out on this gripping tale of unseen terror and hidden secrets. Hit the follow button on our podcast to stay updated, and join our Facebook group for access to extensive materials and discussions. Be safe, stay alert, and never stop seeking justice.
https://allthatsinteresting.com/circleville-letters
https://www.historicmysteries.com/circleville-letters/
https://sciotovalleyguardian.com
https://thecinemaholic.com/is-paul-freshour-dead-or-alive-how-did-he-die/
https://www.thevintagenews.com
https://the-line-up.com/the-sinister-mystery-of-the-circleville-letter-writer
 

Small Town Big Murder:The Darius Ford Case

Darius Markum Ford Sr., often referred to as DM, was a prominent figure in Zanesville, Ohio. Born on January 10, 1958, in Bellaire, Ohio, DM was deeply involved in his community, known for his dedication to martial arts and local sports. He was a self-employed Kung Fu instructor and taught Tae-Bo classes across Zanesville, Cambridge, Newark, and Coshocton. Additionally, he served as the offensive coordinator for the Muskingum Valley Cobras, a semi-pro football team, and was active in coaching youth teams in track, soccer, and basketball [[❞]](https://deathliesalibis.podbean.com/e/unsolved-tragedy-the-murder-of-darius-ford/) [[❞]](https://deathliesalibis.podbean.com/).
 
On July 11, 2001, DM was tragically murdered near a public hunting area in Muskingum County. Despite being shot multiple times and paralyzed from the waist down, he managed to crawl 40 yards to his car before succumbing to his injuries. The investigation revealed blood, fingerprints, and unknown male DNA at the scene, but the primary suspect, Stacey Coffey, remained a contentious figure in the case. The complexity of the evidence and conflicting testimonies have left the case unsolved, maintaining a cloud of mystery over the circumstances of his death [[❞]](https://deathliesalibis.podbean.com/) [[❞]](https://www.alumniclass.com/zanesville-high-school-blue-devils-oh/in-memory-view/?p=49323).
 
DM Ford's legacy continues through his family and the community he touched. His contributions to local sports and martial arts have left a lasting impact, and the quest for justice in his case persists as a poignant reminder of the unresolved tragedy [[❞]](https://deathliesalibis.podbean.com/e/unsolved-tragedy-the-murder-of-darius-ford/) [[❞]](https://www.alumniclass.com/zanesville-high-school-blue-devils-oh/in-memory-view/?p=49323).
 
For more detailed information, you can refer to the sources such as [Death Lies & Alibis](https://deathliesalibis.podbean.com/e/unsolved-tragedy-the-murder-of-darius-ford/) and [Zanesville High School Alumni](https://www.alumniclass.com/zanesville-high-school-blue-devils-oh/in-memory-view/?p=49323).

Small Town Big Murder: The Darius Ford Case

Welcome to "Death, Lies, and Alibis," the podcast that delves deep into the dark and eerie world of local cold cases. I'm your host, Christy, and today we are in Zanesville, Ohio, a small town with a hidden darkness and a collection of unanswered questions.
In this episode, we explore the unsolved murder of Darius Markham Ford Sr., affectionately known as DM. Born on January 10, 1958, in Bel Air, Ohio, DM was a beloved figure in the community, known for his dedication to martial arts and local sports. He was a self-employed Kung Fu instructor and a Taido teacher, sharing his knowledge across multiple communities and serving as an offensive coordinator for the Muskingum Valley Cobras, a semi-pro football team.
On July 11, 2001, DM was brutally murdered near a public hunting area in Muskingum County. Despite being paralyzed from the waist down by multiple gunshots, DM managed to crawl 40 yards to his car before succumbing to his injuries. The investigation found blood, fingerprints, and unknown male DNA at the scene, but the primary suspect, Stacey Coffey, remained a complex figure in the case.
We hear from DM's son, Darius Ford Jr., who shares his father's legacy and the impact of the unsolved case on their family and the community. Despite the lack of direct physical evidence and conflicting testimonies, the quest for justice continues.
Join us as we dive into the legal battles, the emotional testimonies, and the enduring hope for answers. Share this episode and help us shine a light on this cold case. Together, we can make a difference.
Stay tuned for the next episode, where we explore the civil court proceedings and the pursuit of justice for DM. Be safe, stay alert, and never stop seeking justice.
 
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